The Darling Girls

The Darling Girls

Saturday, August 30, 2014

Summer Fun

Some random photos of summer fun:

Our annual trip to Catalina Island on Grandma and Grandpa's boat:



 They ALL jumped!!





This is Drew with her beloved Miss Kaitlin, her swimming instructor for the last two years.  Thanks to Miss K, Drew is now part fish.




No, this is NOT our new puppy.  Our friend, and Ron's associate, Joseph just bought this adorable Chow and Kelly was having fun teaching him to like kids and the pool.


This summer was filled with swimming, friends and relaxing.  I found myself surprised at how easy and mellow it all was.  Then I realized why...no surgeries.  The first time in several years we did not have a surgery or illness to dominate the "fun" of summer.  And Kelly is was only doing one day a week of Speech Therapy, so that left us with lots of pool/beach time instead of doctor, hospital, therapy time, and it was lovely!

In a few days Kelly will start First grade, and in a few weeks turn 7.  Unbelievable.  

Drew will start back at Pre-school for 4 days a week (yippee!). 

Jamie is already back at SDSU, rowing and has 17 units, yikes!  Not sure when she will sleep or eat with that schedule.  

Cory has moved back home and starts at Chapman University in 3 days.  She's been attending orientation all week and is excited to begin. They tell her she will be too busy to work, so she might be quitting her job. 

So, that means we are back to 3 "kids" in the house, one not a kid by any stretch of the imagiation and   the other two less and less "kid-ish" as the days go by.  It was a fast summer.

Sunday, July 20, 2014

A great year for Kelly


First day of Kindergarden:



Last day of school:


She had a wonderful year.  
 We were so lucky to have a great teacher and some really nice friends at school.  Kelly grew 3 1/2 inches this year, gained muscle and weight, her speech is clear enough for most everyone to understand her on the first try (yeah!) and her self confidence has improved dramatically.  She is reading level One books, which is something we are pleasantly surprised about and very pleased about.  Kiddos with speech and language issues often struggle with literacy, but Kelly has so far kept up with, and exceeded, the expected goals that are set for Kinder these days....goals which were much hader than when the Bigs were in Kinder!


She belongs to a Daisy Troop (Girl Scouts for Kinder and 1st graders) that is a super bunch of girls and moms.  The local council has put on a Father-Daughter Dance for many years, and Ron got to go to yet another one.  Same place, same tux, just different theme (Roaring 20's).  





June also means Kelly's Family Day, which is the anniversary of her adoption.  Every year I have put her in the clothes she came to us in and taken a picture.  The cute little outfit was huge on her at the time, so there was room for her to keep doing that until this year.  She has grown so much there was no way to put it on her.  And as you can see by the shoes, that wasn't going to happen either.
My little girl is more "girl" now, than "little".  And while I am sad it's going so fast, I couldn't be prouder of her and all she has done.



Monday, June 30, 2014

Graduation

  Well it happened.  

  We are now the proud (very proud) parents of a college graduate. 

  Can't believe we are that old!   
  Can't believe SHE is that old...how did that happen?   

  Cory graduated mid-May from The University of California at Berkeley with a major in Film and Media.  Wow.  I think it was the happiest and saddest day of her life.  Happiest for obvious reasons, and saddest as she loved living in Berkeley, loved the school, and most of all loved her many friends there.  She not only did school, but was on the Crew team as a coxswain for 2 1/2 years then threw herself into all things "film".  Clubs, groups, film showings, and even a founding member of a professional film fraternity.  
  We traveled (all of us) to Nor Cal to go to the main campus graduation ceremony in their new stadium.  It was lovely.  Then hung out at Cory's house and had dinner with her, some of her friends and her first year's roomie's parents.  It was a great, but fast weekend.  Cory stayed there to enjoy the last 2 weeks of her lease, and Jamie flew up for Cory's department ceremony and then they packed up her stuff and went white water river rafting (Jamie's grad gift to her sister) then came home.  
  Cory is living at home now, madly trying to make as much money as she can (hostessing, housesitting, babysitting, and hoping an un-paid movie industry internship turns into a paying internship...) before she starts school again.  She applied to, and was accepted by Chapman University's Dodge Film School for her MFA (masters of fine arts) in Film and Editing.  It's a 3 year course (groan...and a private school...double groan) and only a 20 minute drive from our house, so she will live here and commute.  The course sounds pretty busy, with lots of projects, so I am not really sure how much we will see of her, but we are so happy to get more time with the kid, who is no longer a kid...but a lovely, grown up, college grad!

                                                                Pomp and Circumstance



 Cory in front of her beloved home for the last 2 years....an old frat house.  The frat was shut down years ago, and the house was turned into a privately                                  owned pseudo-apartment.  


 Cory with her two roomies, and dear friends.  She was one of the lucky ones who's roommates became her best friends.


 
                                                                 Going for crepes.



                                                    Jamie at Cory's department ceremony


                                 Cory's Department Ceremony

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Kelly's Teeth

Lost another tooth!

In March we saw the CHOC Craniofacial-Cleft Team, for Kelly's annual appointment.  This is a 3+ hour long appointment with about 8 specialist, all on the team that treats Cleft kids. Kelly's appointment went well, with no surprises.  We are in a "holding pattern" for a few months.

She will continue to see her Speech Therapists (1x week for an hour privately and 2x week at school for 30 min.) which we expected.

One of her ear tubes is out, so that will be watched, not necessarily replaced at the moment.  I was pleased to hear the ENT wasn't in a hurry to replace it, like the last time they came out (this is her third set).  Most Cleft kids have tubes much longer than typical kids, sometimes having tubes forever, as the cleft issues can effect hearing dramatically.   We'll revisit this in July when she has another hearing test.

She will need to start Orthodontics in the next year or so, and that will be our next, big, challenge.  Cleft palate can have a HUGE impact on the placement of the teeth, and bone.  We anticipate many years of extensive Orthodontics...but at the moment we are really only dealing with the Tooth Fairy!  Kelly has lost her 3rd tooth, right on schedule, and was excited to place that tiny little tooth under her pillow.  As you can see from the photo, she has a serious underbite, along with some "Geminated" teeth (fused) and a tiny little lateral tooth that is finally exposed, now that the top front tooth is out.  All part of being a 6 yr old cleft kid.

Amazingly enough, she can still whistle a pretty decent tune!

Monday, April 28, 2014

Easter

Easter is always a big day at our house.  First is the egg hunt in the yard, but then in the afternoon we have a huge egg hunt in the neighborhood.  It happens on our old street, we used the yards of 8 houses, there are about 1,500 plastic eggs filled with candy and around 40 or 50 eggs with gold $1 coins and a few with a $5 or $10 in them.  The big money eggs have clues to where they are hidden, Ron and another neighbor give out the clues to the older kids, or make them figure out riddles or problems to find each clue.  Keeps all the kids (even the grown up ones) busy and the little ones move from egg hunting to the bounce house as the afternoon progresses.  We have a huge potluck and everyone has a great time, and goes home exhausted.



Cory flew down a few days before, and Jamie came the day before.

                                             








Monday, March 31, 2014

Random Pictures

Wow, were did the time go? 

Seems the memory chip from the camera that took the Thanksgiving/Drew's birthday/Christmas photos is missing.  Well, not really missing, more like buried in a "to-do" pile somewhere.  My excuse for not posting has been that I can't find those pictures, but by now, I figure I needed to post something.

So here goes, a bunch of random peeks at what the Littles have been up to:

 Chinese New Year was fun, but the Lions were a little scary for Drew




Kelly has been learning all kinds of things: jump rope, roller skating, gymnastics.  So great to see her growing and having such a great time.


 Drew has some buddies she sees most everyday when we drop Kelly off for Kindergarten.  Here she is with two of them checking out some bugs.  One cutie she claims to be her "Prince".  Yup, as you can see from the following picture, she is a true girlie-girl.  All clothing must now be "a dress; flowery, sparkly or "fuffuly" (cross between fluffy and ruffly)".  



Kelly dresses up sometimes, but the cowboy boots with the Chinese traditional dress are as fancy as it gets for her.



  And believe it or not, they still sleep in the same bed.  We have two beds in the room, but even when I separate them, which isn't often, it doesn't last more than an hour or so before one of them gets up and goes to sleep with the other.  They are such "sisters" now.  Annoying each other, tattling on each other, sharing food, giggling till they fall down, and crying when the other gets in trouble.  
Life is so good.

Friday, November 8, 2013

October

Halloween is always a crazy and fun time at our house.

annual Carmel Apple Party 

Jamie came up and brought friends

Who needs Halloween candy with these around??


Pumpkin carving at the neighbor's party


Kelly's kindergarten's Fall Festival on Halloween day

Every year Ron out-does himself with a new and spooky creation.  This year it was a moving dragon head, complete with "smoke" coming from his mouth.  The biggest "kid" in the house always has more fun than anyone else in the neighborhood.

                                    Kelly was Princess Jasmine and Drew was Little Bo Peep


                                                               Ron and his dragon.